In present Singapore,it is necessary for both parents to work.The pros of both parents working,is to allow the family to be financially stable and to also allow the children to grow more independent.However,there are also cons of both parents working.It will affect the communication between the parents and the child and time not spent with them would cause a lack in moral guidance and affects the child's growth.
When both parents are at work,it would meant that there will be more income for the whole family.The family will then be financially stable and thus,the children will receive better health care and facilities.With that,the children will grow up happily and healthily at the same time.
Children are left at home alone while both of their parents are at work.This allows the children to handle their meals alone without any parents guidance,learning to be more independent from young.This would also boost the child's confidence of being able to take care of his/her own and to also make them feel that their parents trust them by living them alone at home.All of this would put a positive impact when they are adults.
There are not only pros of both working parents but also cons of it.Firstly,when both parents are always working,there will be lack of interaction and communication between the children and the parents.Time spent with the children will be very little and this will allow the children to feel that they are not loved and this would cause problems in their lives in the future.There will be little bonding between the parents and the children and relationship between them will be strained too.
Moral guidance for the children is also important in the child's growth.Since there are little communication between them,the children would feel that the attention and love they ought to have from their parents are not received,they will seek other alternatives.Little did they know that these attention they are seeking for will led to serious consequences.Example like,breaking the laws and showing disrespect to the elders.
In conclusion,there are both negatives and postives impact of having both working parents.It is true that it is good for a family with a stable income and children could also grow up to be more independent.However,it is not healthy for the children to grow up without enough affection and being loved from their parents.Which is why moral guidance for the children is vital.
Hey Xin Ni!
ReplyDeleteI really think that children these days are not getting proper guidiance at home. There are so many children turning bad.
However, there are also a number of children who take advantage of their parents love and affection.Therefore, we cannot fully blame the parents if the child turns bad.